Our family has lived through an experience in our circle of relationships which has deepened our understanding of what it actually means to be "family."
Sadly, what we see more than we'd like to ...are Christians walking what is sometimes a very difficult road in the flesh rather than in the Spirit. Been there ourselves. Done that ourselves.
Everyone sees it. It's not like non repentant sinning Christians are hiding anything. At least not for long they aren't.
I remain confident of this: I will see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living.
"I cannot help but think of the slew of adoptive parents--so many of whom claim to be Christians--that I have encountered over the years that reject and dismiss those whom they call "angry adoptees."
And I think of them as I share these words, hoping that perhaps they will stumble across my words, and read them with the realization that these words could one day be the very words of their own children. And I hope that they will realize that how they choose to respond in such moments of intense emotion means everything.
To realize that it's not about them.
And that it never was to begin with.
So, please, let go of yourself and love your child without condition (who will grow to become an adult no matter what you do) through the rage and anger, the hurt and pain, the questions and doubts.
Don't fear it.
Don't run from it.
Run into it. With arms wide open."