Control

One of the most difficult things to deal with when dealing with an individual who has attachment struggles is the level of control they attempt to exert over those with whom they interact.

Controlling behavior is not always easily recognizable.

Oftentimes it's subtle.

And...highly manipulative.

I honestly believe that when we see someone trying to control us or others...we are to confront the behavior head on.

He/she attempts to control the narrative.  Attempts to divide, isolate, and alienate.  Attempts to  rule by emotion or lack of emotion.  Hides in plain sight.  Plays the victim.  Distracts w/distress. Or...remains utterly aloof. Untouchable.  Unmovable. A fortress.  Impenetrable.

Call it out.

So that it can be rooted out.