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a place for followers of Christ dealing with various stages of attachment
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Send in your hearts so that others might be encouraged by the gentle whispers of the Lord's love.
Feel free to leave anonymous comments. We know how intimidating and frightening navigating this territory can be. You are not alone...and chances are...you're probably not crazy.
Thanks for the bloglove, Brenda
- Simply Moms
- We are not experts. We are not offering professional advice, diagnosis or support. We are merely two families (friends) sharing our experiences, what the Lord has revealed to us and a shoulder to help bear others' burdens.
Childhood Symptoms
*Superficially charming and engaging, particularly around strangers or those who they feel they can manipulate
*Indiscriminate affection, often to strangers; but not affectionate on parent's terms
*Problems making eye contact, except when angry or lying
*A severe need to control everything and everyone, worsens as child gets older
*Hypervigilant
*Hyperactive, yet lazy in performing tasks
*Argumentative, often over silly or insignificant things
*Frequent tantrums or rage, often over trivial issues
*Demanding or clingy, often at inappropriate times
*Trouble understanding cause and effect
*Poor impulse control
*Lacks morals and values
*Little or no empathy; often have not developed a conscience
*Cruelty to animals
*Lying for no apparent reason
*False allegations of abuse
*Destructive to property or self
*Stealing
*Constant chatter, nonsense questions
*Abnormal speech patterns
*Developmental/learning delays
*Fascination with fire/blood/gore; will usually make the bad choice
*Problems with food; either hoarding or refusing
*Concerned with details but ignoring main issues
*Few or no long term friends; tend to be loners
*Attitude of entitlement or self importance
*Sneaks things without permission even if she/he could have them by asking
*Triangulation of adults; pitting one against the other
*A darkness behind eyes when raging
*Parents appear to be overcontrolling
Books for Parents
- Attaching in Adoption by Deborah D. Gray
- Disconnected Kids by Robert Milillo
- Sensational Kids by Lucy Jane Miller
- Shepherding A Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp
- The Connected Child by Dr. Purvis
- The Whole Life Adoption Book by Jayne E. Schooler
- Toddler Adoption, The Weaver's Craft by Mary Hopkins-Best
Books for Kids
- Let's Talk About It : Adoption by Fred Rogers
- Adopted and Loved Forever
- Jin Woo
- Little Miss Spider
- Borya And The Burps
- I Love You Like Crazy Cakes
- Tell Me Again About The Night I Was Born
- Stuart Little
Films
- Bella
- Dan In Real Life
- Inn of The Seventh Happiness
- Martian Child
- Stuart Little
- The Italian
Not for Us, But for You to Know the Others Near You for Support
2 comments:
This was a hard interview to watch. I think any of us that have been in this RAD world for awhile, KNOW people that disrupt usually have very good reason--
And I especially know how impossible all of this would be without the Lord.
However, it is so hard when the story appears to be that they just didn't connect. . .that the feelings weren't there.
:(
Cate
How heartbreaking for the baby and the family...in different ways. I feel AND understand the desire to give up, but I also trust God will either change the child or grow me...and quite honestly, do both. I pray that every child feels loved, connected, and desired by a parent...
Kristen
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